My son
got some potentially bad news from his attorney recently. In my last post I wrote about how well his
status hearing went, and that the character reference letters that several
people had written on his behalf were to be presented to the prosecuting
attorney. After the prosecutor reviewed
the letters he sent an email to my son’s attorney stating that no leniency
would be granted. The prosecutor is
known as a “by the book” type of guy so I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. But both my son and I had our hopes up after
his hearing, so this came as quite a blow.
My son admitted to me that after he read the letter he just wanted to say,
“screw it all” and go score something to take away his pain. He was able to resist the temptation, but it
was a reminder of how near to the surface the siren’s call of the addiction
lies. It waits, like a vulture circling its prey, to pounce on a reason to become active again. My son was able to work through it and
decided to stay on the path he is on, keep doing the right thing, and hope that
the judge will show mercy. I am so proud
of his determination to fight this demon.
I understand
that there are legal consequences for breaking the law, as there should
be. However, if an addict is fighting
hard to break the chains of addiction and lead a sober life as a productive
citizen, what is the purpose of prison?
Will prison help in the recovery process? I think not.
Now, I truly do believe that my son’s arrest was an intervention by the
Lord to save his life and I don’t regret that he was arrested. Even my son feels that his arrest saved his
life. But if the purpose of prison is to
rehabilitate folks so they won’t commit further crimes, it would seem to me
that it would be defeating the purpose at this point. It is clear from the character references
written by my son’s employer, counselor, and people who know him, that he is
trying his best to turn his life around.
I
will not let this latest piece of news destroy me. I will continue to have faith and trust the
Lord. I have learned, and continue to
learn that I can CHOOSE to go on with my life and find comfort in knowing that the
Lord loves my son and is doing all He can to help him. I can choose serenity in acceptance of the
things I am powerless over. One of those
things is the justice system. My husband
and I intend to set up a meeting with the prosecutor in hopes that he will hear
us out as we tell him about the miraculous changes taking place in my son’s
life, and that he will have compassion.
If he doesn’t, I’ve done all I can do, and the rest is in God’s
hands. I trust those hands, and His love
for us.
